Sarah Harding desires the epitaph on her grave to say “FFS”.
The 39-year-old singer is presently battling breast most cancers – which has unfold to different elements of her physique together with her backbone – and has stated she “retains occupied with funerals” currently and has thought lengthy and onerous about what she’d like her personal ceremony to appear like.
Sarah joked she desires her epitaph to learn “FFS” – which is an abbreviation for “for f**** sake” – as a result of that’s been her “most used phrase” all through her well being battle.
Writing in her memoir, ‘Hear Me Out’, she stated: “I maintain occupied with funerals in the intervening time. It’d sound morbid, nevertheless it’s onerous to not at this stage – cemeteries, plots, burials, what sort of send-off I’d like and the way it might all go.
“I’ve additionally considered an epitaph for my grave. I’m pondering ‘FFS’ is perhaps a great one. It’s in all probability been my most used phrase all through this, with one crappy occasion following one other. ‘For f**** sake!’ ”
The Ladies Aloud star additionally revealed her plans for a legacy which might assist to boost cash for charities resembling Macmillan Most cancers Help and The Christie Charitable Fund, which offers enhanced companies for the Christie most cancers hospital in Manchester.
She added: “What I’d actually love is to placed on some kind of charity gala or massive fundraising occasion by means of a large thanks.
“Even when I’m not round to see an occasion by, I must let the folks there understand how grateful I’m to them for all they’ve carried out for me.”
The information comes after Sarah lately revealed Christmas 2020 could possibly be her final, as a result of the spreading of her most cancers now means the sickness is terminal.
She stated: “In December my physician advised me that the upcoming Christmas would in all probability be my final. I don’t need an actual prognosis. I don’t know why anybody would need that. Consolation and being as pain-free as doable is what’s vital to me now.
“I’m making an attempt to stay and luxuriate in each second of my life, nonetheless lengthy it is perhaps. I’m having a glass of wine or two throughout all this, as a result of it helps me calm down. I’m positive some folks may suppose that’s not an amazing concept, however I need to attempt to get pleasure from myself. I’m at a stage now the place I don’t know what number of months I’ve left. Who is aware of, perhaps I’ll shock everybody, however that’s how I’m issues.”